Thursday, December 22, 2011
或是因这几年来所发生的事，又刚好的在这时候看了‘林楚曼与蔡家豪‘的故事。
又或者是因为阿妹的那首‘我要快乐‘。
我觉得我在这几天想法改变了好多。
我不再抱着任何希望他会有所改变。
突然觉得好像那块长时间压在心里的大石被抬起，心头舒畅了好多。
我不再想离婚的事，不再钻牛角尖，就让一切顺其自然。
我承认我对他心灰意冷，对他很失望。
但我不是不爱他了。而是选择用另一个方式去爱。
一个比较轻松，不会让大家感到窒息的一个方式。
我决定把之前放在他身上的时间与心细都放在我自己身上。
把多点时间与心细放在自己身上， 我想也是件利人利己的一件事吧！
至少白天出门不再吓人，晚上出门也不再吓鬼。
天长地久不是不可能。
而是比我们所了解的更难以琢磨。
两个人要天长地久的在一起，需要的是非比一般的努力。
调整一下思维也算是努力的一种吧。
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