Sunday, August 14, 2011
3：43pm
不是我爱耍酷。而是我不知道该跟你说什么。难道我们夫妻两儿也开始走向婚姻的尽头？
无缘无故受人白眼。老公除了玩电动，什么都不管。做得再好也没人欣赏。这种日子，不是因为孩子，哪儿过得下去？
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snowflakes at 10:27 AM
People always say that a stable relationship is built on compromise, trust, etc.
But what would happened when 1 party compromise and the other party continues?
This is what happening to me all these times.
The difference is that I dunno if he's the one giving in or I'm the one.
I realised I seems to know less of him now.
He's more like a stranger to me.
All he have in his heart is his games, his friends...
There seems to have no place for me or the kids.
I'm sick and tired of talking to him, telling him how I feel, telling him what hurts me.
I'm not going to talk any more.
I was planning for a trip to Europe on our 10th year anniversary.
Now I wonder if we we can still be in good terms to lasts us till our Hong Kong trip in September.
不开心就什么都不去看，不去想，不去听。执行鸵鸟政策，当个鸟人
But what would happened when 1 party compromise and the other party continues?
This is what happening to me all these times.
The difference is that I dunno if he's the one giving in or I'm the one.
I realised I seems to know less of him now.
He's more like a stranger to me.
All he have in his heart is his games, his friends...
There seems to have no place for me or the kids.
I'm sick and tired of talking to him, telling him how I feel, telling him what hurts me.
I'm not going to talk any more.
I was planning for a trip to Europe on our 10th year anniversary.
Now I wonder if we we can still be in good terms to lasts us till our Hong Kong trip in September.
不开心就什么都不去看，不去想，不去听。执行鸵鸟政策，当个鸟人
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snowflakes at 9:08 AM
Monday, August 01, 2011
A FATHER'S RULES FOR FINDING FULFILLMENT
Be kind, considerate and compassionate when others are in trouble, even if you have problems of your own. Others will admire your selflessness and will help you in due course.
Show moral courage. Do what is right, even if that makes you unpopular. I always thought it important to be able to look at myself in the shaving mirror every morning and not feel guilt or remorse. I depart this world with a pretty clear conscience.
Show humility. Stand your ground but pause to reflect on what the other side are saying, and back off when you know you are wrong. Never worry about losing face. That only happens when you are pig-headed.
Learn from your mistakes. You will make plenty so use them as a learning tool. If you keep making the same mistake or run into a problem, you’re doing something wrong.
Learn from your mistakes. You will make plenty so use them as a learning tool. If you keep making the same mistake or run into a problem, you’re doing something wrong.
Avoid disparaging someone to a third party; it is only you who will look bad. If you have a problem with someone, tell them face to face.
Hold fire! If someone crosses you, don’t react immediately. Once you say something it can never be taken back, and most people deserve a second chance.
Have fun. If this involves taking risks, so be it. If you get caught, hold your hands up.
Give to charity and help those who are less fortunate than yourselves: it’s easy and so rewarding.
Always look on the upside! The glass is half full, never half empty. Every adversity has a silver lining if you seek it out.
Make it your instinct always to say ‘yes’. Look for reasons to do something, not reasons to say no. Your friends will cherish you for that.
Be canny: you will get more of what you want if you can give someone more of what they desire. Compromise can be king.
Always accept a party invitation. You may not want to go, but they want you there. Show them courtesy and respect.
Never ever let a friend down. I would bury bodies for my friends, if they asked me to . . . which is why I have chosen them carefully.
Always tip for good service. It shows respect. But never reward poor service. Poor service is insulting.
Always treat those you meet as your social equal, whether they are above or below your station in life. For those above you, show due deference, but don’t be a sycophant.
Always respect age, as age equals wisdom.
Be prepared to put the interests of your sibling first.
Be proud of who you are and where you come from, but open your mind to other cultures and languages. When you begin to travel (as I hope you will), you’ll learn that your place in the world is both vital and insignificant. Don’t get too big for your breeches.
Be ambitious, but not nakedly so. Be prepared to back your assertions with craftsmanship and hard work.
Live every day to its full: do something that makes you smile or laugh, and avoid procrastination.
Give of your best at school. Some teachers forget that pupils need incentives. So if your teacher doesn’t give you one, devise your own.
Always pay the most you can afford. Never skimp on hotels, clothing, shoes, make-up or jewellery. But always look for a deal. You get what you pay for.
Never give up! My two little soldiers have no dad, but you are brave, big-hearted, fit and strong. You are also loved by an immensely kind and supportive team of family and friends. You make your own good fortune, my children, so battle on.
Never feel sorry for yourself, or at least don’t do it for long. Crying doesn’t make things better.
Look after your body and it will look after you.
Learn a language, or at least try. Never engage a person abroad in conversation without first greeting them in their own language; by all means ask if they speak English!
And finally, cherish your mother, and take very good care of her.
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