我明白快乐是由内心的。 内心不开心, 外来的东西更不可能给你快乐。
怨天由人是没用的。与其在那儿怨天怨地, 倒不如把时间花在规划自己的未来。
付出跟得到的永远都不可能是一样的。。。
牺牲是自己开心甘愿做的,别人往往都不会因为你所做的牺牲而给你特别的待遇。
人的价值是起伏不定的。。。这一秒你可能值百万, 下一秒你可能连一个元都不值。
快乐和悲伤都是自己给自己的。。。 从来都不是别人给的。。。
凡是都得靠自己。因为只有自己是不会让自己倒下去的。。。Labels: Life
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snowflakes at 11:48 PM
Would u regret if u're not the first in my heart anymore?
I can't find any reason to put you in the first place after what u've done to me.
Maybe I shouldn't be asking so much from you after marriage. I should've known better.. Afterall, we've been married for almost 10 years.
How long the marriage last is only a number game. It is not equivalent to how much one loves another, or hw deep ones love is.
I'm tired of asking. Tired of handling 4 kids when I only have 3 and the other one is a big kid capable to do anything on his own.
Peaceful life - 说得容易,做的难。。。Labels: Life, marriage
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snowflakes at 11:32 AM
It's tiring...
Life with 3 kids and without a maid is hell!
I think I overestimated myself.
I am totally incapable to handle 3 kids when I'm also studying at this time.
But I'm glad that my studies is coming to an end soon.
I can then focus more on my kids.
I dun want to be a super-career woman.
All I want is to be there with my kids when they need me and to be able to improve our communication as they grow up.
Nothing is more satisfying than seeing your kids grow up into a healthy being - mind and body.
To put it crudely, they are my benchmarks, my scorecards...
Their success is my success and their failure mine.
I want to be the best mother I can be.
I want to shake free the traditional parenting style.
I need to learn...
And learning starts from these little beings....
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snowflakes at 8:18 PM