Monday, September 21, 2009
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I always agree that we should work hard & smart when young.
So I try to put in my best in everything.
I also understand what it means by 'you reap what you sow'.
So I try my best to sow what I want to reap in the future.
I want to climb the corporate ladder.
I want to have a high paying job so I won't have to think thrice when buying something.
And of course, to be able to cater to my kids material needs.
I'm young, so I have to work hard.
But I think I am spending too much time on my studies & my career
that I am neglecting my kids.
I haven't taught them anything for the past 2 weeks.
I did not revise their spelling words with them for the past weeks either.
With hubby working now, my MIL is the only person who can
help me coach them in their studies.
But my kids do best in bullying their granny.
So you can imagine the nagging I got every time I return home from class??
What is more important actually?
My career or my family?
I have my dream, my own ambitions.
But should i continue to pursue that or should I give up
and give my all for my kids.
What should I do?
I have discussed with hubby before to find a part time job
so I can spend most of my time on the kids.
But what about my studies???
If I am going to have that kind of job,
I don't think I need to spend the kind of money on a professional cert.
Or should I?
Maybe I'll take things slow and i/o taking 2 papers at a time,
I'll just take 1 paper at a time.
But I will have to wait for another 2 yrs to have my cert i/o 1 yr.
I'm like standing at the start of the road.
The road splits into several path.
Each is a path of no return.
I will have to choose carefully lest I chose the wrong path.
Which should I choose?
Is monetary wealth really that important??
Or is spiritual wealth more important?
Which should I choose?
Which is worth my while to pursue???
What should I do??
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
I always agree that we should work hard & smart when young.
So I try to put in my best in everything.
I also understand what it means by 'you reap what you sow'.
So I try my best to sow what I want to reap in the future.
I want to climb the corporate ladder.
I want to have a high paying job so I won't have to think thrice when buying something.
And of course, to be able to cater to my kids material needs.
I'm young, so I have to work hard.
But I think I am spending too much time on my studies & my career
that I am neglecting my kids.
I haven't taught them anything for the past 2 weeks.
I did not revise their spelling words with them for the past weeks either.
With hubby working now, my MIL is the only person who can
help me coach them in their studies.
But my kids do best in bullying their granny.
So you can imagine the nagging I got every time I return home from class??
What is more important actually?
My career or my family?
I have my dream, my own ambitions.
But should i continue to pursue that or should I give up
and give my all for my kids.
What should I do?
I have discussed with hubby before to find a part time job
so I can spend most of my time on the kids.
But what about my studies???
If I am going to have that kind of job,
I don't think I need to spend the kind of money on a professional cert.
Or should I?
Maybe I'll take things slow and i/o taking 2 papers at a time,
I'll just take 1 paper at a time.
But I will have to wait for another 2 yrs to have my cert i/o 1 yr.
I'm like standing at the start of the road.
The road splits into several path.
Each is a path of no return.
I will have to choose carefully lest I chose the wrong path.
Which should I choose?
Is monetary wealth really that important??
Or is spiritual wealth more important?
Which should I choose?
Which is worth my while to pursue???
What should I do??
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