Saturday, March 07, 2009
Have been exceptionally even tempered recently.
I didn't even blow my top when hubby being ridiculous..
But I shouted at my kids today...
Shouted at Dariz for ever being so demanding...
And scolded my youngest baby, Rhys, for being naughty..
And, yes, for the first time in his life, I hit him...
I hit him on his hand..
A few times..
Cos he beat me first, on my FACE, when I said he was naughty in a angry tone...
Den I hit him back and said 'Cannot beat ppl!'
in an even angrier tone...
Maybe he thought that if he show that he was even more fierce than me,
I would be scared and let him off, so he hit me again....
On my shoulder this time (I was carrying him, and we're facing each other).
The rest, I think you could even guess it without much effort..
I hit him, he hit me back...
And this go on for quite a while until I hit him quite hard and
said the same thing in an even louder voice and look at
him with an even more 'lethal' look...
He cried... And doesn't even dare to look for his auntie whom
he would always look for when he feels bullied.
I know many ppl would say-
'Crazy woman! The baby is barely a year old.. What would he know?'
But I would say:
This is the way I teach my children. I am the mother..
We Chinese have a saying '三岁定终身'.
Which means our character and whatever that u were
being thought by the time you're 3, will be with you for life.
Dun tell me that things do change when the kids are older,
they'll know better when they're older..
I dun wanna wait till when they're older..
Cos old habits die hard.
I would rather try to change them when they're younger than they are older..
That's the philosophy I take when it comes to my kids...
Ok, enough on my 妈妈经..
Let's change to some lighter topics...
Went to Aloha Loyang today to do check-in on another mummy's behalf.
Her baby 1yo birthday today...
If you have read my previous post, you would have known that my
Baby Rhys should have his first birthday celebration today at Aloha...
Too bad, 人算不如天算，he contracted chicken pox
and have to cancel off the celebration....
Haiz~
I am so sad~
I went in to take a look at the surrounding..
And I really like the surrounding there...
They have a children playground and a swimming pool..
And hubby's favorite: an arcade.
I think I will find an excuse to hold a chalet at Aloha this year end... =P
Work life sux...
The ppl there sux...
And yes, to the max, you could say...
They would always say 'I'm very busy, I'm very busy'
Stay for OT and stuff like that,
but I always see them standing around and chit-chatting with the others..
Or they'll walk here and there...
And do nothing.....
But when you ask them to help, they'll go 'I'm very busy! I'm very busy!'
Crap right?!
These ppl = idiots
Sometimes, I really feel like killing them!!
Of course, there's nice ppl around also....
Like ABC & EFG...
And some others lorx....
*Yes, I'm being an idiot, too.
Which idiot would have names like ABC & EFG???
But I'm just trying to leave some space for imagination for my readers...
You can guess who are the evil wans and the good wans...
But there'll be no price for correct guess...
Hahaha!!!!
I didn't even blow my top when hubby being ridiculous..
But I shouted at my kids today...
Shouted at Dariz for ever being so demanding...
And scolded my youngest baby, Rhys, for being naughty..
And, yes, for the first time in his life, I hit him...
I hit him on his hand..
A few times..
Cos he beat me first, on my FACE, when I said he was naughty in a angry tone...
Den I hit him back and said 'Cannot beat ppl!'
in an even angrier tone...
Maybe he thought that if he show that he was even more fierce than me,
I would be scared and let him off, so he hit me again....
On my shoulder this time (I was carrying him, and we're facing each other).
The rest, I think you could even guess it without much effort..
I hit him, he hit me back...
And this go on for quite a while until I hit him quite hard and
said the same thing in an even louder voice and look at
him with an even more 'lethal' look...
He cried... And doesn't even dare to look for his auntie whom
he would always look for when he feels bullied.
I know many ppl would say-
'Crazy woman! The baby is barely a year old.. What would he know?'
But I would say:
This is the way I teach my children. I am the mother..
We Chinese have a saying '三岁定终身'.
Which means our character and whatever that u were
being thought by the time you're 3, will be with you for life.
Dun tell me that things do change when the kids are older,
they'll know better when they're older..
I dun wanna wait till when they're older..
Cos old habits die hard.
I would rather try to change them when they're younger than they are older..
That's the philosophy I take when it comes to my kids...
Ok, enough on my 妈妈经..
Let's change to some lighter topics...
Went to Aloha Loyang today to do check-in on another mummy's behalf.
Her baby 1yo birthday today...
If you have read my previous post, you would have known that my
Baby Rhys should have his first birthday celebration today at Aloha...
Too bad, 人算不如天算，he contracted chicken pox
and have to cancel off the celebration....
Haiz~
I am so sad~
I went in to take a look at the surrounding..
And I really like the surrounding there...
They have a children playground and a swimming pool..
And hubby's favorite: an arcade.
I think I will find an excuse to hold a chalet at Aloha this year end... =P
Work life sux...
The ppl there sux...
And yes, to the max, you could say...
They would always say 'I'm very busy, I'm very busy'
Stay for OT and stuff like that,
but I always see them standing around and chit-chatting with the others..
Or they'll walk here and there...
And do nothing.....
But when you ask them to help, they'll go 'I'm very busy! I'm very busy!'
Crap right?!
These ppl = idiots
Sometimes, I really feel like killing them!!
Of course, there's nice ppl around also....
Like ABC & EFG...
And some others lorx....
*Yes, I'm being an idiot, too.
Which idiot would have names like ABC & EFG???
But I'm just trying to leave some space for imagination for my readers...
You can guess who are the evil wans and the good wans...
But there'll be no price for correct guess...
Hahaha!!!!
IcYb3|| counted
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