Tuesday, September 16, 2008
Went blog reading
Saw a blog on parenting
this lady hates her mum so much
that she vowed she would never attend her funeral
Woo~
That's harsh..
My point on this issue:
1) You just have too much hatred in your heart.
You can't let go of the past, that's why you are unhappy now...
2) During a quarrel, why must u continue talking back to her??
If you just keep your bloody gap shut, I believe she wont
even say those things that she had said
3)As a mother yourself now, hw would u feel if ur boy
treats u the way u treat ur mother now 20yrs down the road??
As far as I knw, the things that you're doing now
are no better than what ur mum did in the past.
Dun tell me that I dun know what you have been through
Cos I went through hell too before I became what I am now
I keep telling myself I want to break out of that cycle
I dun want to be a useless person...
Though I'm not having very good life right now
But at least I'm working hard towards the path I've chosen
I can at least see a shimmer of light at the end of tunnel...
In no time I'll be out of the darkness
Do you think my mum fork out a single cent or help out a single part??
No! She did not!!!!!!
I am who i am because of my hard work....
No matter how good or how bad my life will be in the future
It will all be my own doings...
No one to blame... But all to thank..
1)Mother In Law:
- for loving my children so much that she will sacrifice all to see that my children are well taken care of
- for setting a positive example for me so that I know how I should act as a mother
2) Elder Sister:
- for always putting me down... Make me feel inferior to you.. And that makes me wanna work harder to be (at least) on par with you.. Come on, we're from the same parents, sure I'm not that bad, right??
It's all in ur heart...
No one can control how u wanna feel
Life is not a coincidence but the mirror of your own doings....
Remember this!
IcYb3|| counted
snowflakes at 10:45 PM