Saturday, October 14, 2006
I have a frenz, who is one yr younger then me told me that she was pregnant. She already have a 3 yrs old daughter. Seperated with her child's father few months after the child was born. She was thinking of getting an abortion. She MSN me and told me this... I get so worked up that i almost begged her not to do it!
I dun understand why ppl rather kill their own unborn child then to seek for help?! I mean... If u are living in some backward country, where there is limited help & no education/info provided on this issue, it's acceptable that u abort it even though it's still not the right thing for u to do. But right here in Singapore, where u can find all the help u need anywhere, why would ppl still choose to have their baby aborted???? Don't they find that they are very cruel??? Selfish??? Very inhuman??? They can even kill their own baby! Can't they just pick up a phone and dial some helpline specifically for woman with unwanted pregnancy, or just dial the no. to MCDS n ask the receptionist to put u through to the department so that they can brief u and arrange for your baby to be adopted?? Here is SINGAPORE, a civilized country where we are advanced in almost everything! Can you imagine that such uncivilized act of depriving a baby's right of staying alive is happening right here??
When u put up a baby for adoption through the right channel, the baby will, confirm, landed up in good hands. And by correct channel, I mean the government system. Every child being adopted will have a Case worker(CW). The CW will visit the child frequently n do follow ups to make sure that the child is not being abused. And in Singapore, many couples have no children of their own & they are dying to have kids. You can rest assured that your baby will be well taken care of... The adoptive parents may treat your child better then the way u treat him/her.
I find this a win-win solution.
You dun wan the baby, u give it away instead of depriving the baby's right of being alive; Killing the baby, taking his life away from him just because of a stupid mistake u make or some excuses u cook up for not wanting a baby!
Don't you find that it is more human too???
Unwanted pregnancy is that"Whoever's" own mistake. Not the fault of the baby. We should, as an adult, admit our own mistake and solve the problem. Have some sense of responsibility n be considerate when u are making a "Life & Death" decision. You got to pay a price for whatever wrong that you've done. You wouldn't always have the easy way out...
ABORTION IS A SIN, NOT A SOLUTION!!!
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