Sunday, September 17, 2006

Just read my sister's blog. She was talking on this '$400 solution' issue. She was so angry with the blog her frenx wrote on this issue. Not only her, I am also very angry now!

In the blog, the writer says that it's stupid for single mother to give birth to their child. They could jolly well choose the '$400 solution'(which is abortion). Why do they choose to give birth to the kids and breed 'delinquencies & potential future criminals'???

In my point of view, delinquencies & potential future criminals do nt necessary comes from a single family. Those rich n powerful, with a proper nucleus family do breed these kind of kids too... So why do ppl out there have to condemn single mothers??? I find single mothers worth our respect more then others... They are a bunch of ppl who is willing to face to the music rather then be a ostrich n choose the so call '$400 solution'. Single mothers are willing to sacrifice their time, their money, their freedom, their energy, their everything jus to bring the tiny being to this world. What's wrong with that??? Why shld those ppl out there look down on them???

I'm a mother myself. I have 2 sons age 3 yrs n 20 mths. I know hw hard is it to be a mother.. Even when i have my mother in law to help, I'll still find it stress to look after them sometimes. Single mothers have to go through this kind of stress alone!!! Aren't they brave???

It's already bad enough that the government wont help them. Shouldn't we be easy on them?? Why cause them unnecessary stress??? You flip thru the pages on the newspapers n will sometimes see news on new born being chucked down the rubbish bin. Have u asked yourself why do these mothers do this kind of things?? In my point of view, I think it's because of the "unseen" stress that the public put on them. If we try to be less hostile to these bunch of ppl, i think these kinds of tragedies will not happen den...

I'm poor in English, so I cant really express what i want to say. But to whoever out there... If you have any 'brilliant' solutions next time that you cant wait to tell the whole world, pls stop n think why the others didnt use the solution u tot of at the first place. It's always good nt to be a too-smart alack!!!


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